I’m under average sized, but my fiancé and I have a good sex life. She enjoys sex with me (that part isn’t in question). She reacts and sometimes even has light PIV orgasms when we do.
She’s also shared that in some positions she doesn’t feel as much physically. She still values the emotional connection and wants me inside her, and we do this very often.
However, after some conversation, we agreed to buy an expensive very realistic dildo that’s significantly larger than me… The size difference is obvious, and when we use it together, her physical reactions and orgasms are noticeably more intense. I use it with a harness and pretend it’s me, and I know for certain that’s the only reason it even works for her. For context I’m 4” long and 4” circumference, and the dildo is 8” long by 6”.
I know a lot of guys might find this embarrassing, but I like to see her get pleasure. Do you see any potential downside to this?
That’s the relevant point right here. But you only mention how she feels about it. What about you?
In general, speaking from a woman’s point of view: a man that is not only not afraid to use sex toys (there are a lot out there…) but also knows what they’re doing and listens to what I want, is a jackpot in bed. No matter how they’re build. No downsides.
My spouse sometimes likes gigantic boobs and though I’m already build quite good, it’s not always enough for him. So we bought some huge silicone tits I can wear on top and seeing how happy it makes him is more than enough to overcome that little sting in the back of my head. Because let’s be honest: being able to pleasure your partner can make you feel very connected but also powerful.
So I hope you feel confident using this 8’’ bad boy because you have all the reason to.