I’m new as in this is my first day using lemmy. I don’t know anything about lemmy etiquette and don’t want to do anything bad

thanks and have an amazing day! also plz be kind :D

  • 𒉀TheGuyTM3𒉁@lemmy.ml
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    12 hours ago

    You can say anything, but always better to have an account on two or three politically different instances in case you want to critisize USA, China, or any controversial thing in the world.

    But if you ain’t an asshole, you’re welcome! Have a nice journey into the fediverse!

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      3 hours ago

      Thanks! When I joined, I joined a few instances, so I can see what feels best for me. Have a great day and thanks! :D

      What server do you recommend if I don’t want politics (I don’t like how much is on lemmy.ml )

  • Pika@rekabu.ru
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    Hey, welcome to Lemmy! Hope you like it here :)

    As in everywhere on the Fediverse, there is no consistent etiquette for every place, as different people concentrate in different places. But overall, if you’re nice to others, they will be nice to you!

    For the most part, Lemmy is politically left, LGBTQIA+ friendly, privacy-minded, welcomes copyleft and piracy, loves to get geeky. The most loud audiences are IT crowd and scientists, but people from all walks of life are present.

    If you don’t fit into something, it’s alright - you cannot be globally banned by anyone but your instance admin, and even then you can move on to another instance. Downvotes also mean nothing and don’t downrank your posts and comments. There’s no karma system - technically, servers do record your up- and downvotes, but they don’t affect anything at all.

    Still, be nice and you’ll be warmly welcomed by the community. Here, you have a real chance to become a legend!

  • brucethemoose@lemmy.world
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    1 day ago

    First thing, Lemmy is in need of content and likes recruiting. Hence you got 315 replies, heh.

    Basically, if you aren’t a bigot, you don’t have to worry about what you say. You can be politically incorrect in any direction and not get a global/shadowban from the Fediverse.

    Each instance has its own flavor and etiquette.

  • HuntressHimbo@lemmy.zip
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    1 day ago

    Most Lemmy etiquette is pretty easy to follow. Just check the sidebar for rules before you post or comment. Etiquette is slightly varied among instances, but generally be nice and you’ll do fine. You may catch bans from communities you don’t participate in depending what you post, but try not to pay it to much mind.

    Some instances or communities are explicitly heavily moderated (see Blahaj, Beehaw, and others) and preemptively ban people for comments and posts elsewhere. Most likely it’s nothing personal, and you wouldn’t have gotten much from those communities if you are posting counter to their purpose.

    Other than that enjoy your time here!

  • rumba@lemmy.zip
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    1 day ago

    Bots turn down from 10 to 3

    Trolls turn down from 11 to 4 (depending on the instance)

    Downvotes don’t mean anything and your comments can’t generally be buried.

    Mods/Admins are generally far less petty

    Most instances are more open about things that are posted, even if the inhabitants of that instance are less accepting of it.

    Every instance has it’s own ettiquite, be sure to read the stuff in the welcome.

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    1 day ago

    Instances are a big difference. Most interfaces, apps, clients for Lemmy will show you the instance (server) in which a user registered their account. There are kind of “instance wars” inside Lemmy, because, between these “wars” they believe an instance, in general, bears their flag and support some kind of ideology.

    Please, talk to other users as people, no matter their instance, don’t ever judge them for that.

  • EsmereldaFritzmonster@lemmings.world
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    1 day ago

    Lemmy is like an unintuitive, user-unfriendly reddit. And everyone likes it that way. I’m not leaving bc i want to support open-source shit, but I’m hoping it gets more user friendly someday.

    • Camille_Jamal@lemmy.mlOP
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      2 hours ago

      Awesome, some less trolls should be here, if it’s unfriendly!

      Jokes aside, I don’t mind learning a new UI, especially when the platform feels so fresh

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        I genuinely don’t know where to start bc i put it in the back of my mind over a year ago when i joined; i don’t remember all the lingo. I never got around to researching answers then and at this point, I don’t use it enough to justify time spent.

        Like if I have to research how to use it, it’s not user friendly imo

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    2 days ago

    Mostly the same. There are some differences you’ll figure out as you go but my favorite is that there is no Karma. I like that people aren’t posting to “win”.

    There is some debate over how upvotes and downvotes should be used since it’s not for Karma, but honestly it’s not that big of a deal. Upvotes will make it easier for other people to find the post. Downvotes make it harder. That’s it, more or less.

    Welcome home!

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      It would be funny to see the karma converted to currency usable to buy awards to give away.

      Interactions like:

      “Take my hard won [insert currency name here] in the shape of this award and get out!”

      Nothing for nothing, get your things for free.

  • GentlePulpy@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    Welcome!

    Lemmy in its core is a supportive little communities of enthusiasts.

    Just try to keep high level of discussion and be friendly in our home :)

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    It’s basically the same. Lemmy is kind of what reddit felt like before it got huge and astroturfed, it’s smaller which can be as much a benefit as a detriment depending what your after. I find interaction here tends to feel more human than reddit, on reddit comment threads especially in political subreddits you already know what the comments are gonna say before you get there, here i feel as though there is a bit more genuine thought. That being said Lemmy is not immune to echo chambers or trolls, as any bit of the internet is. Just use as you would use reddit honestly and just know your likely not to see as much content, but the content you see will get a more GENUINE feeling interaction. That’s my take anyhow.

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      I’ve noticed that if you’re center or center-right here you get downvoted to oblivion or outright have your comments deleted by mods. It’s not really advertised, people have to find out the hard way. At least reddit has TrueUnpopularOpinion for people across the political spectrum to discuss with each other, and there’s nothing similar here at all.

      • Camille_Jamal@lemmy.mlOP
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        2 hours ago

        according to other commenters, it’s different across instances. I personally don’t like to talk about politics, except how it affects me, so I think I’ll be fine. also reddit is weird no matter what sub you go, and according to others, the mods tend to be more chill here, so if comments get removed, chances are (ACCORDING TO OTHERS)

        A) You’re not adding to discussion

        B) You’re being rude

        C) You’re on an instance that doesn’t like your opinion, swap instances possibly?

        I don’t know much about lemmy though, I’m new to it. Correct me where I’m wrong.

        Other users have also said if someone is not worth talking to, they downvote them. If you come across as toxic, mean, etc, to me, I will not interact with you.

      • Cowbee [he/they]@lemmy.ml
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        1 day ago

        Complaining about “violent antifa psychos” isn’t really constructive discussion, it’s just open admission to being against antifascism.

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    2 days ago

    So when I came here from Reddit I didn’t know what to pick, so I picked .world figuring it would be bigger or something. Over time it seems like people are saying that .ml is just horrible. I actually thought that .ml stood for militant full of right wing tankies ( don’t know the exact definition of that either). Lately someone essentially berated me for being on the worst one. Just now, I went to the little pull out on the side to see how to change it and what the options were and didn’t even see how to do that.

    Bottom line, I have no clue how any of this works. I just wanted to see some interesting content, news from a different perspective, some fun memes, and some cool comments. I don’t even understand what fediverse means other than it’s kind of like borg technology, meaning that the information is spread across a bunch of servers instead of a single point of failure.

    Maybe one day I’ll look into all of this, but seriously I have a life. As long as I open it and get what I want, I’m good. I almost never post because they are almost always removed for violating some rule. The last time I posted a question on a Linux forum and was getting some really good answers only to have it removed for violating a rule I didn’t even understand. LOL.

    Good luck to you.

    • Cowbee [he/they]@lemmy.ml
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      2 days ago

      “Tankie” is just a pejorative for Marxists in the form of a strawman laden with contradictions. Marxism-Leninism is by no means right-wing, but that just goes to show you how ridiculous the strawman is. Lemmy.world is more liberal, anti-communist, so there’s lots of red scare fearmongering over there.

      As a side note, if you want a broader user experience, it might be better to make an account on sopuli.xyz or something like it that doesn’t block the major leftist instances like Hexbear.net and Lemmygrad.ml, which Lemmy.world unfortunately does.

      • Camille_Jamal@lemmy.mlOP
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        3 hours ago

        Ok, so if I don’t want politics, I kinda just wanna chat and meme, what one do you think is good?

        Thanks btw have a great day

        • Cowbee [he/they]@lemmy.ml
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          Try shopping around for different instances, the one you’re on can actually see a huge number of communities that accounts on Lemmy.world can’t see, as an example. One of the better ways to use Lemmy is to either scroll an instance you vibe with locally, or by using a broad account and browsing by subscribed communities.

          Have a great day to you too!

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        2 days ago

        Lemmy is majority socialist and not communist. So as most liberals are, they are destined to hate on each other because neither side can pass the ‘purity tests’ each side cooks up.

        Y’all deserve each other most of the time.

        • Cowbee [he/they]@lemmy.ml
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          All communists are at first socialists, communism is a post-socialist mode of production. Liberals on the other hand support capitalism, and do unfortunately outnumber the socialists/communists. It isn’t about “purity tests,” there are fundamental disagreements among people that cannot be reconciled.